Showing posts with label Easter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Easter. Show all posts

Monday, April 20, 2015

Life after the big ONE


To our feisty little Bear,

Your personality has certainly blossomed over the past three months, and we have loved every minute (well, most of them) of watching you grow and develop into your own tiny person.

You are independent.  You are loving.  You are HILARIOUS.  You are smart.  You are so much fun.  You love music, dancing, books, and bath time.  You love your puppies (the real one and the stuffed ones), the color pink, and pushing all the buttons on your toys so they make lots of noise.  You are more than I could have ever dreamed, and I am so thankful for every moment that I get to be your mommy.


The last three months since you turned one have been a roller coaster of emotions and your smiling face has kept us going every step of the way.  My prayer is that you always find the funny in life and don't take things to seriously, but you're going to have to start listening to your momma and daddy at some point!  {The words "No" and "Stop it" tend to cause a laughing fit and that's just not going to be acceptable at the age of 13...}



In the past few months you have gone from learning to take your first steps to running laps around the house.  I will say that you run the fastest when you know we are coming to wipe your face off, fix your hear, or put you in bed.

And I'm not sure if it's too early, but I'm predicting that you'll be standing in front of people delivering some very important messages one day because you are VERY passionate about everything you have to say.  Sometimes you even look like you are preaching to us!

Thank you for adding so much joy to our life and for teaching us daily how we are to love unconditionally.  

Fifteenth Month Stats

Wearing: Some 9 month, all 12 month, and some 18 month (some due to the fact that the seasons were going to change without being able to wear these cute outfits at all, so we made it work!)

Eating: Everything and anything. Seriously. She will eat anything you put in her mouth (and unfortunately anything she puts in her own mouth).  She LOVES her milk and still has some issues with quite a few fruits, so we have to watch those.


Sleeping:  Still loving our sleep, but she is an *EARLY* riser, and I'm sad to say that those 2nd naps are a little sporadic these days.  (She has a harder time napping on the days her daddy is home.  She'd so much rather be out playing with him!)  We had some pretty early bed times after turning one...that's tough stuff!!  We also had a hard time adjusting to the time change (including being ready for dinner at 4:00 every night...still).


Teeth: 16. Yes. 16!  (Please note that three short months ago, the last time I filled this little questionnaire out, she had *EIGHT*8*EIGHT*.  She cut 6 at ONE TIME.)  We've only got the four, 2-year molars to go!

Official Measurements:  Baby's brain is still growing off the charts at 49 cm (99+%).  She weighed 23 pounds (75%) and was 31 inches long (68%).  We are so thankful for these healthy numbers, which you can read a little bit more about below.


Last three month highlights

As I mentioned earlier, the last three months have been a bit of a roller coaster ride with lots of questions, lots of tears, and some fear, but we know that in ALL things God works for them together for our good (Romans 8:28).

At Bryleigh's 12 month/1 year check up, our doctor was concerned that Bryleigh had slowed down so much in her growth.  She had fallen from the 95th percentile to around 60 percent, and was dropping each time we took her in.  Thankfully, over the next few weeks and months, we met with the doctors and nurses for follow up visits, talking through all she was eating (which exceeded their expectations for a toddler), sleeping, and playing.  By her 15 month appointment, she had evened out and fell right around the 75th percentile which is where they are wanting her to be.  We are so thankful to have the questions and fear behind us and our happy, growing girl is definitely perfectly healthy (and that is something we don't take fore granted)!


The tougher part came a month ago when we found out that we were expecting Baby Hammons #2.  Bryleigh was going to be a big sister!  {Cue the tears, excitement, and planning} But before we were even able to share the good news with our parents and siblings, we got the devastating news that I was actually having a miscarriage. (Did you know that sometimes those things don't just happen, they keep happening over the course of a few days or even weeks? I didn't, but I do now!)  For the first time in all my blogging/writing history, I don't have the words.  Maybe at some point they'll come and I'll be able to share more, but right now, all I have are the facts, and the fact is, our 2nd little miracle that was due on Thanksgiving Day is already resting sweetly in the arms of Jesus (and in the moment I knew that, I became more homesick for Heaven than I've ever been).

Thankfully, along with the tough stuff, we've had a whole lot of GOOD stuff to carry us along.  Have you seen our daughter's smile?  Or heard her laugh?  Yeah, she makes the bright days brighter and the dark days full of light!

Bryleigh LOVES to play.  She keeps herself entertained every day, all day.  She is a busy-body, always on the go, and she loves playing with all of her toys.  She enjoys dancing to the songs that come on during her favorite shows (Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Doc McStuffins, and Sophia the First), but she's not a big tv/movie watcher.


One thing that HASN'T changed over the past three months (since so much else has) is Daddy's schedule.  He leaves the house on Monday morning (early...he tells his girls bye on Sunday nights) and comes back home on Thursday nights.  We make the most of every minute we have with him over the weekends, so Friday through Sunday is full of memory-making moments, snuggles, and lots of laughing!


My personal fave - the first time she
saw daddy for the weekend!
Not only does B-girl love her daddy, she loves her puppy too!!  They are best buddies.  Bryleigh loves to say puppy, bark like Emmitt does, hold his tongue when he licks her, and pull his legs.


I was able to run my second 5k in February at my "dream 5k" - The Hot Chocolate - with my favorite running partner, my Momma!!  We've been wanting to run THIS very race together for a long time, so we were excited to check another one off our racing bucket list.


Brad and I were so blessed to spend Valentines evening on a very special date - with dinner at Del Friscos Grille, followed by a hotel stay at the Ritz in Downtown Dallas.  We had brunch the next morning at Crossroads Diner (Diners, Drive Ins, and Dives selection and Carrie approved).  It was my first night to stay away from our sweet little girl, so it was definitely time for a getaway with my hubby.  We had so much fun enjoying some "grown-up" time, but we were so thankful to get home and spend time with our girl!


Valentine's Day included some quick time with Mimi and Pappy, chocolate covered strawberries, and a little gift for our sweetest Valentine.  We spent spent the evening with our family of three having a pizza party and watching some college basketball, PERFECTION.  


We had quite a few snow days to end the month of February, and although they weren't Bryleigh's 1st, it was certainly her first time getting to enjoy it (and next time, she'll get to even more!).  We were thankful it didn't mess up any of daddy's transportation, and that he was here during the worst of us.  (The hardest hit day was right in the middle of us going to one of Bryleigh's follow up appointments.)




March is always a fun month, and one we always seem to be counting down to, because it's Daddy's birthday...and he loves reminding us!! We had fun celebrating Brad the weekends before and after his birthday since he was in Winston-Salem on his birthday.  (But don't worry, he celebrated while he was there too!)



Another reason we I love March so much is because of ST. PATRICK'S DAY!! I mean, how can you be a red head and NOT claim it as your own personal holiday?! ;)  I love a good reason to celebrate and do fun things with my girl, and when my momma is around, it's even better!  My mom came in town on her Spring Break and we took our very FIRST shopping trip mother-daughter-trio, and we got Bryleigh some {much needed} shoes!  We also had lucky charms for breakfast, wore our green, had green milk and a green bath, along with a special St. Patty's Day punch!!


Since we got the whole "shoe" part covered, I decided to give bow-wearing a try!  We did a little bow bootcamp at our house, and it made for quite a few laughs.  I'm pretty sure I put that bow in her hair 500 times...in 30 minutes.  (And in case you are wondering, she's not any better at wearing bows.)


We were so blessed to spend Easter morning with our church family at Fielder and then had lunch with Brad's family - DeDe and Poppa B, Aunt Erin, Mema and Cliff, Grandma and Grandpa, and Aunt Lou.  We are always so thankful to be able to spend sweet time with family as they love on our sweet girl.


This family LOVES sports, and one of our very favorites is baseball! One tradition we kind of fell in to was going to the Sunday game of Opening Weekend, and this year it was PERFECT for taking Bryleigh to her very first game.  The weather was perfect, the game went pretty quickly (until it was tied and lasted 12 innings, but we didn't stay quite that long), and we didn't have to mess with any meal times! #lifewithatoddler  Bryleigh got a little scared with all the cheers from an early double play, but she was easy going the rest of the game.  She LOVED dancing to all the music they played, and there was lots for our little people watcher to see!


Saturday, May 17, 2014

A Whole Lot More in Month FOUR!

My Sunshine,



Man, oh man have we had a fun month! Every day you are discovering new things and learning to do more and more, and every day your dad keeps saying, "Man, this just keeps getting more and more fun!"  You are definitely the most joyful part of our days, and we are having so much fun being your mommy and daddy.



If someone asked me what my favorite thing of my day is, I wouldn't have any idea what to say.  Not because I don't have a favorite part, but because EVERYTHING is my favorite part.  I LOVE going to get you out of bed each morning after you've just woken up.  Normally, you wake up a little, move around some, and then stare straight into the camera waiting for us to come get you.  Once we get in your room, you just look at us and your face lights up with your beautiful smile.  I love giving you your bottles because you look up at me and you are always playing with my arms or hands while you drink your bottles.  I love playtime! You are SO much fun and you are having lots of learn learning about yourself, your voice, and your toys...sometimes all at the same time.  I love the way that you talk while you are playing and kick around...most of the time moving pretty quickly around on (and off) your pallet.  I love nap time...snuggling you in the rocking chair as you start to dose off and listening to you coo as you start to relax.  I even love changing your diapers.  It's just more time to talk and laugh with you and see your beautiful smile.  And lately, you think that changing diaper time is ALSO play time.  It's funny, but it definitely makes things tough!  I love bath time and the fact that you just relax in the warm water like you know exactly what you are doing.  You always look so cute all warped up in your towel, followed by some messy curly hair cuteness...and bath time always means smell good time!!  I could snuggle you for hours after bath time!  And probably one of my very favorite and least favorite parts - bedtime.  Those 8 to 12 hours is a long time for this momma to go without her sweet girl, but I LOVE the little routine we have at bedtime - getting all cozy in your jammies, getting your last bottle of the day, and then closing out our day with a Bible Story (that's a new thing for this month!) and prayers.  It's in those moments that I just sit holding you and in awe of the beautiful gift that God has given to me and your daddy.



This month has brought lots of changes, although they seemed to come on subtly.  Your eyes are getting darker and your hair is getting lighter (looking more and more like momma's each day).  You also have lots more head control and even sit up from time to time, and I'm pretty sure you're just about to roll over (back to tummy...you've got tummy to back down good!).  You've also started picking things up on your own, and you are definitely more aware of your hands...including sucking your thumb (and fingers).  We can put a toy in front of you and you'll take it from us, and you can also pick up your toys around you all by yourself.  My favorite thing you have started doing is LAUGHING!  It's not too much yet, but I've definitely heard it come out a few times and it always makes me laugh even more.  Our smiles and laughs really seem to get you going because you respond to our smiles with a smile and our laughs with a laugh.



This month you have started to get in to a normal routine - waking up between 8 and 9:30, taking your bottle after you've woken up and we've talked/played a little, taking a little cat nap about an hour after you've eaten, taking your second bottle, and then a good long nap about an hour later.  The rest of the day seems to follow suit with more playing, eating, then napping.  You usually finish up your day around 9:30 or so with one final bottle and some snuggles with mommy while we read your bible story and say our prayers.  (You LOVE it when Daddy comes in to read the bible story, you end up laughing and smiling at him the whole time!)

Fourth Month Stats
Wearing: 0-3 months in clothes and pajamas, and moved in to size 2 diapers the day B Girl turned 3 months!
Eating: 6 ounces every 3 hours, 5 times a day...most days!
Sleeping: Napping about 1 to 2 hours after a bottle for about 1.5 to 2 hours...sometimes up to 4 hours!  And most nights Bryleigh is sleeping from 9:30 pm to 9:30 am (with some adjustments from time to time...putting the pass back in and putting her on her tummy in the early morning hours)

Bryleigh girl is still off the charts in her head measurements at 44 cm.  She currently weighs 16 pounds 4 ounces and is 25.5 inches long, both being in the 90th percentile for girls her age.  Dr. Wallace said she is doing GREAT and looks very healthy.  She was pleased with all of her developments and said she's definitely ahead in some of those areas...especially her head control, holding her chest up when she's on her tummy, and the placement of her arms/hands during that time.  Our sweet girl got stuck twice and had one oral vaccine at her check-up.  Oh...and we are introducing some foods over the days and weeks to come!! :) Our little girl is definitely growing up!


Fourth Month Highlights

We kicked off Bryleigh's fourth month with her 1st Easter!  DeDe and Poppa B came over for Sloppy Joes and had an easter basket for Bryleigh.  We were headed to Sulphur Springs for the weekend, so we gave Bryleigh her first Easter Basket on Friday before we left.



We had a great weekend in SS with Mimi and Pappy - meeting the Easter Bunny, watching Frozen, and eating Resurrection Rolls...and Bryleigh went to SSFBC for her very first time!





Bryleigh got to meet some of my very favorite people this month.  Brad and I spent a Saturday in Plano (getting a Mani/Pedi and eating some Red, Hot, and Blue!!), and we got to finish it up at my best friend Kim's house!  I was also able to meet up with her and my former Yardi co-workers for lunch later that week.  I was so glad Bryleigh got to meet all of them!



Some months, we have a pretty good idea of what's coming our way...and then some months deliver blows we have NO idea they are coming.  This month was the perfect example!! We've been SO looking forward to our Bryleigh Girl meeting Papa (Brad's mom's dad) and Uncle B (Brad's mom's brother), but what we WEREN'T expecting was Daddy having his second surgery in 6 weeks.  I didn't mention it last time because Brad didn't want a lot of people knowing, but it was the day after his 26th birthday...and it got infected, so a second surgery was needed.  Thankfully, Brad felt good enough to still spend some fun time with Papa and Uncle B over at our house for dinner on Friday and Saturday nights, and I got to make my momma's Peach Cobbler for the very first time.  Papa even sang the Little Buckaroo song to Bryleigh that he always sang to Brad! :)


We also got to celebrate our sweet friends Kari and Rylan!! We are so excited for him to arrive and have lots of play dates! (And his mommy just graduated with her MASTERS! Congratulations Kari!)


There aren't really words to cover my first mother's day and the overwhelming feelings I had about my amazing day with my sweet girl!  Due to Brad's surgery and some complications that came up afterwards, we weren't able to leave and go anywhere, but it was honestly the most perfect day.  We spent the day relaxing as a family.  We made waffles and watched my brothers latest sermon and spent the day hanging out on the couch catching up on Scandal :)...and lots of playtime with Bryleigh girl of course! We were blessed to see both of our momma's over the weekend as well!

I will note that we had a "sad" first on Mother's Day - Bryleigh had her first fever!  She'd been pretty snotty and just a little less active than normal, so we knew she wasn't feeling to great, but Sunday night she finally had some fever and we knew she was officially sick.  She was a trooper though, never too fussy and still her normal self - eating, sleeping, and playing!


We had fun re-taking some pictures THIS year that we took last year on Mother's Day weekend after just finding out Baby Hammons was on the way! (You can read some other blogs about all of that in my mother's day letter to Miss B and my post from last year when we found out the great news!)


Brad and I are both blessed with incredible mother's who have loved us and given so much for us over the years. It was a fun weekend getting to spend time with both of them.  DeDe said all she needed was a little time with Bryleigh and her day was made! :) I'd have to agree with her!



And maybe one of the top moments of the month for Daddy was Brad and Bryleigh's first "Daddy/Daughter Date Night".  I was able to go to our girl's bible study with the other wives in our small group on Wednesday night and Daddy and Bryleigh had their first "alone" time together.  Daddy did GREAT!!  (And to be honest, the only thing we were really worried about was the fact that Brad hasn't been able to feed/hold Bryleigh since his surgery...Bryleigh LOVES her daddy, so time with the two of them never concerned me.  He's a great daddy!!)


Every month brings about some firsts, and this month included Bryleigh's first pair of shorts, her first laugh, and her very first baby doll.  I'm sure there were some others in there too!  Those are all pictured along with some of my other favorites of her from this month.



And can I just add that BRYLEIGH. LOVES. SLEEEEEP! :)



And in some very exciting news...Bryleigh and I won an Insta-Giveaway!!  I've been following Sugar Plum Lane for some time now on Instagram and had fallen in love with these shorts.  When I saw there post, I knew I had to enter...just give it a shot!  They had teamed up with Anastasia Noelle for their #SummerBabyGold giveaway, along with August Ink (LOVE their name ;) and their designs) and Pretty Little Elm (LOVE their BOWS!!).  I'm so excited for our sweet little B-Girl to be decked out in GOLD!!


Cities visited
Waxahachie, TX; Plano, TX; Dallas, TX

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Make way for the King

I was saved from my sins when I was 5.  I had a moment of doubt in the 5th grade and was baptized again.  I have been on mission trip, after mission trip, and I have had the privilege of seeing others come to know Christ.  My favorite place in the world to be is - anywhere - in the heart of worship.  I have completed multiple bible studies, tithed my 10 percent, and spent time in prayer with my Father.

But one problem I've always had in my faith is being ready for His coming.  There have been moments of selfishness (and brutal honesty) that I would tell others that I'm just not ready.  I KNOW heaven is so much better than this earth, but there are things I want to do, be, and accomplish before I leave this earth.  I want to spend time with my husband, I want to meet my little nephew, I want to be a mommy and even a grand-mommy.

This was a feeling I've had as long as I can remember, and this is a feeling that I desperately WANTED to go away.  I would pray, daily, for the Lord to give me a heart for eternity and not for this world.  I believe placing my focus there would change my life in other areas as well.

I have had this prayer for years.  I finally got a GLIMPSE of that feeling on Sunday morning.  I have also prayed for an understanding of what Christ did for me on the cross, not just KNOWING what he did, but really feeling all the pain, desparation, and hope that went along with his sacrifice.  This also came on Sunday morning.

Leading up to the Easter season, I complete a few reading plans and spent time in worship while I was alone, and on Good Friday I had a realization.  What was it REALLY like that day?? As Jesus breathed his last breath on the cross, there was a group that celebrated thinking they had victory, and there was a group that mourned thinking all they had hoped for was finished.

This idea seemed to be reiterated throughout Easter sunday - it was in the Sunday School lesson that my dad taught, and it was in the Big Church sermon that Mark preached.  It was confirmation to me that I was getting it, at least a very small part of it all.

But those goose bump, heart pounding, tears forming feelings came when we closed out the Sunday morning service with Lenny Leblanc's song "Make Way for the King."  Pastor had closed out his sermon with a message of hope and a challenge.  As believers, we have our place in the army of the one riding on the white horse - HOPE.  But we have an obligation to share His story with those who are not on His team yet - CHALLENGE.

Hallelujah - He's on the throne.  Hallelujah - He's coming.  He's coming on a white horse to carry me home, so I make way for the King.





I just finished uploading pictures from our trip back to Sulphur Springs over the Easter weekend.  It was a quick trip, but I enjoyed being back again for the first time since Christmas.  I also enjoy getting to go back to FBC and see everyone that has meant so much to me throughout the years.  I also love seeing some of those people excited to see my sweet husband because they have grown to love him as well!


I think Emmitt is trying to get in all his "All About Me" time before little Tate gets here in September because he knows he won't have Mimi and Pappy's full attention anymore!



He doesn't want to miss ANYTHING, which makes things hard when everyone is different places.






Content in dad's arms - as long as mimi and pappy are close by!



Pappy spoils the pups with treats - they LOVE Little Caesars.


My sweet boy and me on Easter morning.

We had a GREAT morning in worship at First Baptist, and we loved the steak lunch that my mom and dad made.  We get spoiled when we go to Sulphur :)